Peace in the Chaos: Part 2c - If I am Following Christ, Why Don't I have Peace? - Our Actions

I apologize for the delay in getting this post out. The last few weeks have been especially busy and difficult, but we are muddling through. If you have not been following along I have been doing a series on Peace in the Chaos. You can review Part 1, Part 2a, and Part 2b by clicking on the links. Today we are going to look more closely at how our actions can keep us from experiencing the peace that passes all understanding. (Philippians 4:7)

When I was a very young child going to Sunday School we used to sing a song titled, O Be Careful Little Eyes . If you click on the link it will take you to a cute version by the Cedarmont Kids which adds two extra verses, one about the mind and one about the heart. I am not sure who the original author or composer was, but it has been humming around since before I was a tot in the sixties.

1
Oh, be careful, little eyes, what you see,
Oh, be careful, little eyes, what you see.
There’s a Father up above looking down in tender love,
Oh, be careful, little eyes, what you see.
2
Oh, be careful, little ears, what you hear,
Oh, be careful, little ears, what you hear.
There’s a Father up above looking down in tender love,
Oh, be careful, little ears, what you hear.
3
Oh, be careful, little tongue, what you say,
Oh, be careful, little tongue, what you say.
There’s a Father up above looking down in tender love,
Oh, be careful, little tongue, what you say.
4
Oh, be careful, little hands, what you do,
Oh, be careful, little hands, what you do.
There’s a Father up above looking down in tender love,
Oh, be careful, little hands, what you do.
5
Oh, be careful, little feet, where you go,
Oh, be careful, little feet, where you go.
There’s a Father up above looking down in tender love,
Oh, be careful, little feet, where you go.
— Taken from Hymnal.net

This simplistic little ditty is full of good advice, especially if we are searching for peace. If we took each verse we could find scriptures that reinforce the simple directions being given. What I like about this song, other than the fact that I can remember it from so many decades ago is that it speaks to all the areas that we often use to get into trouble. The Cedarmont Kids version does well to add the heart and the mind as we know those can so often lead us into chaos.

The simple fact is, our choices drive our actions. We all have individual responsibility for what we see, what we do, what we say, what we hear, and where we go. We are also responsible for what we put into our minds and to whom we entrust our hearts. Do bad things happen to people? Yes, but we are still responsible for how we respond. Unfortunately, this is not a popular opinion in our world today. We regularly hear the philosophy of blame.

I thought it would be helpful to use the song as our guide as we look at which actions lead us away from God’s peace and which help to surround us with God’s peace.

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O be careful little eyes what you see. Generally speaking seeing something is not necessarily an action. We don’t always have control over what passes through our eye gates. I want to speak to the times when we choose to view things that remove us from the presence of God’s peace. What does God’s word say about what we see?

25 Let your eyes look directly ahead
And let your gaze be fixed straight in front of you.
26 Watch the path of your feet
And all your ways will be established.
27 Do not turn to the right nor to the left;
Turn your foot from evil.
— Proverbs 4:25-27 (NASB 1995)

I included the next two verses, because I believe they are pertinent to our vision. In the book of Proverbs, King Solomon shares his God given wisdom with his son, urging him to listen to his instructions and to embrace and love wisdom. However, we know that this book is pertinent to all believers. It was included in the canon of scripture so we know that the instruction and wisdom it offers is for us as well.

King Solomon was well acquainted with the pull of the world, and I am sure his eyes saw many things that were not designed to give him peace. It is with this knowledge and understanding that he penned these words.

God wants us to keep our eyes on Him; to fix our gaze on Him (Hebrews 12:1-2). He also instructs us to be careful where we step (Psalm 119:101). and to not allow ourselves to stray into evil. It is easy to stray off the straight path. Whether we start with books or movies with explicit sex scenes or dive straight into pornography, we have strayed down a path that will not bring us peace. Excessive use of social media, and becoming desensitized to violence will also not bring us peace.

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Be careful little ears what you hear. Ask yourself what am I listening to? What kind of music? What sort of podcasts? Which news media are we letting in through our ear gates? Are the things we listen to making us angry, rebellious, frustrated, lustful, anxious, or discouraged? Those things are not bringing us peace. These actions rarely happen over night. They develop slowly as we let our guard down and begin to listen to things that are not cultivating peace in our lives.

Paul warned Timothy about false teachers, false doctrines and the people who listened to those teachings. This is just as pertinent to us today as it was in Timothy’s time.

3 For the time will come when they will not endure sound doctrine; but wanting to have their ears tickled, they will accumulate for themselves teachers in accordance to their own desires,
4 and will turn away their ears from the truth and will turn aside to myths.
— 2 Timothy 4:3-4 (NASB 1995)

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Be careful little tongue what you say. The book of James in the New Testament refers to the tongue as a small fire that can set a forest ablaze (James 3:5). I love this analogy. We all are aware of large areas of forest being burned to the ground by a single ember from a cigarette, a campfire that was unwatched or on a larger scale a fierce lightening strike. What seems small and inconsequential can turn into a raging, and even life threatening situation.

We see in the Scriptures that our tongue can be used for good or for bad. The psalmist describes the tongue of the wicked:

7 His mouth is full of curses and deceit and oppression;
Under his tongue is mischief and wickedness.
— Psalm 10:7 (NASB 1995)

We are seeing many of these situations in our world today, especially in our country. With the use of social media we now have things like cyber bullying, slander, and piece meal information put together to sway the viewer to whatever “side” is behind the keyboard. The news used to be reliable and unbiased, but I no longer believe that is the case. It seems everyone has an agenda. For me personally this makes me anxious, so I have to close the door on that when I start feeling ill at ease. Do I want to be informed? Yes. Do I want information to take away the peace that God has given me? No. When I start to feel that happen I turn off those voices and go back to His Word and His truth.

I have a choice to use my tongue to praise, worship, encourage, and bring others back to His truth, or I can spew gossip, negativity, and half truths. Which do you think will bring peace?

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Be careful little hands what you do. What sorts of things can we do with our hands that take away our peace? I think many of these areas have cross over. If your hands use your computer to look up things that are not godly; if you hands write or type words or ideas that do not align with God’s will and word; if you use your hands to harm others or if your hands are idle, doing nothing, these are not actions that will bring God’s peace.

10 “A little sleep, a little slumber,
A little folding of the hands to rest”—
11 Your poverty will come in like a vagabond
And your need like an armed man.
— Proverbs 6:10-11 (NASB 1995)
16 There are six things which the Lord hates,
Yes, seven which are an abomination to Him:
17 Haughty eyes, a lying tongue,
And hands that shed innocent blood,
18 A heart that devises wicked plans,
Feet that run rapidly to evil,
19 A false witness who utters lies,
And one who spreads strife among brothers.
— Proverbs 6:16-19 (NASB 1995)

Many verses in the Bible talk about using our hands in praise and worship and in helping others who are struggling.

O clap your hands, all peoples; Shout to God with the voice of joy.
— Psalm 47:1 (NASB 1995)
So I will bless You as long as I live; I will lift up my hands in Your name.
— Psalm 63:4 (NASB 1995)
She extends her hand to the poor, And she stretches out her hands to the needy.
— Proverbs 31:20 (NASB 1995)

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Be careful little feet where you go. The book of Psalms is full of references to our feet.

My steps have held fast to Your paths. My feet have not slipped.
— Psalm 17:5 (NASB 1995)
He makes my feet like hinds’ feet, And sets me upon my high places.
— Psalm 18:33 (NASB 1995)
My eyes are continually toward the Lord, For He will pluck my feet out of the net.
— Psalm 25:15 (NASB 1995)

God keeps our feet from slipping and as the last verse states “He will pluck our feet out of the net” when we find ourselves in a situation that is hazardous, but in any of these situations it is as we are following Him. If we are wandering off of our own accord and finding our way into places and situations where sin and chaos are unfolding, then God may still keep us safe, but we will not have His peace.

10 My son, if sinners entice you,
Do not consent.
11 If they say, “Come with us,
Let us lie in wait for blood,
Let us ambush the innocent without cause;
12 Let us swallow them alive like Sheol,
Even whole, as those who go down to the pit;
13 We will find all kinds of precious wealth,
We will fill our houses with spoil;
14 Throw in your lot with us,
We shall all have one purse,”
15 My son, do not walk in the way with them.
Keep your feet from their path,
16 For their feet run to evil
And they hasten to shed blood.
17 Indeed, it is useless to spread the baited net
In the sight of any bird;
18 But they lie in wait for their own blood;
They ambush their own lives.
19 So are the ways of everyone who gains by violence;
It takes away the life of its possessors.
— Proverbs 1:10-19 (NASB 1995)

We have seen in recent months an uptick in protests across our country, not just active protesting, but violent protesting that has resulting in people losing their lives. I believe in the right to protest, but I do not believe it should escalate to the point of violence. I believe our country has made it possible to protest and speak against our government, but I personally feel this should be done within the confines of normal laws.

That being said, I also would add the question, as a believer, how does protesting bring about God’s peace? If in the long term it enables people to be treated more fairly and allows for improvements to our current legal system, then hopefully it is God’s movement leading people to protest. If protesting makes one feel enraged, and filled with hatred then I do not believe this is part of God’s plan. These are just my opinions and I fully expect there will be people who disagree with me and that is okay.

Where are your feet taking you? Are they taking you down paths of peace, or are they leading you into valleys of chaos.

I hope you enjoyed this series. Please leave you thoughts and ideas in the comments section or leave a comment on Facebook. I certainly welcome any ideas you have on peace.

Have a great day!

Peace in the Chaos: Part 2b - If I am Following Christ, Why Don't I have Peace? - The Emotions

Last week we started looking at three areas that might keep us from experiencing the peace of God, even though we walk with Him and read His word. Going through the motion of being a Christian does not always mean we will have His true peace. We must know the Prince of Peace on a personal level to really experience the peace that passes all understanding.

Last week we looked at the mind and examined two areas: alignment and focus. This week we are going to delve into the universe of our emotions and discuss how they can either help or hinder our ability to have God’s peace in troubled times. I have discussed emotions on the blog before, so some of this might be review, but it is good to keep these ideas in mind in these turbulent times.

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God Given. We have looked at Genesis 1 before, but let’s dive in again.

26 Then God said, “Let Us make man in Our image, according to Our likeness; and let them rule over the fish of the sea and over the birds of the sky and over the cattle and over all the earth, and over every creeping thing that creeps on the earth.”
27 God created man in His own image, in the image of God He created him; male and female He created them.
28 God blessed them; and God said to them, “Be fruitful and multiply, and fill the earth, and subdue it; and rule over the fish of the sea and over the birds of the sky and over every living thing that moves on the earth.”
29 Then God said, “Behold, I have given you every plant yielding seed that is on the surface of all the earth, and every tree which has fruit yielding seed; it shall be food for you;
30 and to every beast of the earth and to every bird of the sky and to every thing that moves on the earth which has life, I have given every green plant for food”; and it was so.
31 God saw all that He had made, and behold, it was very good. And there was evening and there was morning, the sixth day.
— Genesis 1:26-31 (NASB 1995)

God created man in His image. It wasn’t an image like Nebuchadnezzar built in Daniel 3, an image made of gold and built to bow down to. The image of God is not the physical manifestation, but the mind and spirit. We are not made in God’s image as a baby bears the image of his or her parents, but as in we are spiritual beings with characteristics shared with God such as creativity, purpose, and emotion.

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The above verses go on to confirm the idea of purpose, as we see God gave man the purpose of being fruitful and having rule over the earth. Purpose is definitely tied in to our emotions. If we have purpose we can keep going. If we have purpose we can tame our anger, manage our discouragement and keep striving for our hope. And no, the purpose of our lives is not to be happy, but to glorify God.

16 but if anyone suffers as a Christian, he is not to be ashamed, but is to glorify God in this name.
— I Peter 4:16 (NASB 1995)

Recognizing that our emotions are from God, how is it that they can keep us from having His peace?

Immature emotions. Emotional maturity is something that happens as we learn how to, not only embrace and feel our emotions, but also learn to manage them. Unfortunately, in the church community as I was growing up in the 60’s and 70’s we didn’t talk about our emotions, at least not to the extent people do today. Now, we have all manner of psychological tests, books and information on emotion, with terms we never heard of when I was young like ADHD, Autism, Emotional Regulation, Emotional Intelligence and so on. However, long before we had this knowledge, God already had it figured out. He knew there was a process to maturing emotionally.

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14 As a result, we are no longer to be children, tossed here and there by waves and carried about by every wind of doctrine, by the trickery of men, by craftiness in deceitful scheming;
15 but speaking the truth in love, we are to grow up in all aspects into Him who is the head, even Christ,
16 from whom the whole body, being fitted and held together by what every joint supplies, according to the proper working of each individual part, causes the growth of the body for the building up of itself in love.
— Ephesians 4:14-16 (NASB 1995)

I think it is important to note that having the information we do now can be very helpful, especially in trying to understand ourselves or our children, but that information is not a substitute for the truth of God’s word and the input of His Holy Spirit in our lives. For instance when a young child is acting out it is good to know what might be behind those emotions: hunger, fatigue, frustrations, want, etc. This can also be helpful for ourselves, but we still need to let the child know why it is not good to hit others, or to not destroy things that belong to others, etc. In the same way emotional maturity in my own self shows up as I learn to put off immediate gratification, or lean in to grief after a job loss or death of someone special.

Unresolved emotions. One of the ways emotions keep us from His peace is when they are unresolved. Anger, jealously, lust, selfishness when left to feed become problematic. Let’s look at a few scriptures.

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14 Pursue peace with all men, and the sanctification without which no one will see the Lord.
15 See to it that no one comes short of the grace of God; that no root of bitterness springing up causes trouble, and by it many be defiled;
— Hebrews 12:14-15 (NASB 1995)

Notice how the author says, “that no root of bitterness springing up causes trouble, and by it many be defiled.” What happens when bitterness takes control? I know from my own experience it can lead to gossip, slander and other misuses of our tongues. That in turn, leads to others being defiled, because we have swayed their thinking, and their emotions with our words and feelings.

13 Who among you is wise and understanding? Let him show by his good behavior his deeds in the gentleness of wisdom.
14 But if you have bitter jealousy and selfish ambition in your heart, do not be arrogant and so lie against the truth.
15 This wisdom is not that which comes down from above, but is earthly, natural, demonic.
16 For where jealousy and selfish ambition exist, there is disorder and every evil thing.
17 But the wisdom from above is first pure, then peaceable, gentle, reasonable, full of mercy and good fruits, unwavering, without hypocrisy.
18 And the seed whose fruit is righteousness is sown in peace by those who make peace.
— James 3:16-18 (NASB 1995)

This passage makes several points that I want to dwell on.

1 - Wisdom and understanding come in the form of good behavior, and gentleness. I am becoming more aware of the word gentle and its forms in Scripture and it is always used with regards to our relationship with others. I will look more at our actions next week, but today remember the emotion of gentleness.

2 - Jealousy and selfish ambition are earthly, natural and demonic. Yikes! That is strong language, but the author goes on to say why. For where jealousy and selfish ambition exist there is disorder, and every evil thing. What is the title of this series? Peace in the Chaos…hmmm, do you think there might be a connection between what we see going on in our country and the world and these emotions that are earthly, natural and demonic?

3 - Wisdom from God is the emotional pot of gold. Look at the list: pure, peaceful, gentle, reasonable, merciful, fruitful, steadfast and true. I include all of these in the emotion category. Though each one may not be an emotion per say, they are the seeds that generate how our emotions will be used.

4 - Righteousness blooms from seeds sewn in peace by those who make peace. When we move through life from one volatile emotion to another we do not create peace, in our own lives or in the lives of others.

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Emotional overload. This has to do with making our emotions the focal point of our lives. I have had to learn to embrace the reality that I am an emotional person. I cry when I watch certain movies. I carry great sadness for those I love who are not following Christ. I dealt with anger for decades from the time I was very young and through much of my adult life. I was like a tea pot that simmered until I finally blew up. My girls and my spouse have not only seen, but occasionally felt my wrath. My life was consumed by how I felt, and believe me, I never felt at peace…until I finally matured and realized who I truly was in God’s eyes, and that my emotions were a gift from Him; a gift that now moves me to pray, to laugh, to cry, to feel deeply for what others are going through.

When we allow emotions to rule in our lives we cannot have God’s peace. We will not be able to find His peace because we will be so focused in on having our emotions soothed, our needs/wants met, and maintaining control over everything, that all we end up doing is making ourselves miserable. I know. I have been there.

22 Now flee from youthful lusts and pursue righteousness, faith, love and peace, with those who call on the Lord from a pure heart
— 2 Timothy 2:22 (NASB 1995)
1 Remind them to be subject to rulers, to authorities, to be obedient, to be ready for every good deed,
2 to malign no one, to be peaceable, gentle, showing every consideration for all men.
3 For we also once were foolish ourselves, disobedient, deceived, enslaved to various lusts and pleasures, spending our life in malice and envy, hateful, hating one another.
4 But when the kindness of God our Savior and His love for mankind appeared,
5 He saved us, not on the basis of deeds which we have done in righteousness, but according to His mercy, by the washing of regeneration and renewing by the Holy Spirit,
6 whom He poured out upon us richly through Jesus Christ our Savior,
7 so that being justified by His grace we would be made heirs according to the hope of eternal life.
— Titus 3:1-7 (NASB 1995)

The above verses both mention the capacity for emotions such as lust, envy, and hate to lead to enslavement and foolishness on our parts. 2 Timothy says to “flee youthful lusts.” Run away from them as fast as you can. This gives a nod, not only to overload, but to emotional maturity. The Titus passage reminds us that we were enslaved to “lusts, pleasures, spending our life in malice and envy, hateful and hating one another.”

It is one thing to feel anger, lust, and even hatred in a burst of emotion, but those feelings have to be tempered by the Holy Spirit in our lives. He is the one who renews and regenerates us. Just as I need to take the things I hear and see back to His Word, I need to take the emotions I am feeling back to Him and ask for a course correction. The best way to do this is by keeping short accounts with God. Don’t go days and days without checking in. Don’t go weeks and weeks without looking into His Word. His Word is truth and it will never, ever lead us astray.

Next week we will look at how our actions lead us away from His peace. Be sure to keep and eye out for new content soon.

Peace in the Chaos - Part 2a - If I am Following Christ, Why Don't I Have Peace? - The Mind

Last week I started a short series on the idea of finding peace in the midst of these chaotic times. I looked at words Jesus spoke to His disciples from John 16:33 and pointed out six different important points from the verse: Jesus’ words had a purpose; He wants us to have peace; our peace is directly connected to Him; we will have trouble in this world; we can take courage; and Jesus has overcome the world.

This week I want to focus on why we, so often, don’t have peace even when we are Christ followers. Remember from John 16:33 Jesus said, “…so that in Me you may have peace…” By using the word “may” it is clear we have a choice, otherwise I believe the verse would have been written, “…you will have peace…” Tapping into Jesus’ peace, or into the Prince of Peace is a choice of our will.

I could probably write another whole series on why we don’t have peace, but to keep it to just a few blog posts I want to simply paint a broad brush stroke by focusing on: the mind, the emotions and the body.

The Mind. I think it is obvious to most of us that we have much more information filling our minds today than we did even 20 years ago. It’s not just that we have access to more, but that there are so many other voices to listen to. There are times I feel there is a demonic element to social media and all its tentacles, but I will save that for another post. For the purposes of this post I want to delve into the ideas of alignment and focus.

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The question we have to ask ourselves is who or what am I aligning myself with, and is that producing the soil of peace in my life. The Bible, in both the Old and New Testaments has guidelines on association. In the book of Joshua, the people of Israel are told to not associate with the nations in the Promised Land that they were going into.

6 Be very firm, then, to keep and do all that is written in the book of the law of Moses, so that you may not turn aside from it to the right hand or to the left,
7 so that you will not associate with these nations, these which remain among you, or mention the name of their gods, or make anyone swear by them, or serve them, or bow down to them.
8 But you are to cling to the Lord your God, as you have done to this day.
— Joshua 23:6-8 (NASB 1995)

Proverbs 20:19 tells us to not associate with gossips. Proverbs 22:24 tells us to not associate with those who are given to anger, or hot tempered. The whole book of Proverbs is a how-to on relationships and how to live in a godly manner.

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In the New Testament Paul tells us not to associate with immoral people, but he is not talking about immoral people out in the world: the clerk at the grocery store, your employer, the friend you have had since grade school. Paul is talking about immoral people who are in the church and who are claiming to follow Christ. We can’t live in this world and not associate with people who don’t know Jesus. They are everywhere and some of them are in our own families. As Paul said, “…for then you would have to go out of the world.” (I Corinthians 5:9-13.)

In addition we need to look at what philosophies, schools of thought, teachings, etc. we are aligning ourselves with. There is nothing wrong with reading, listening to, discussing ideas that are not Biblical. We are taught evolution in school from elementary school up. We read fiction books for entertainment and watch movies like Harry Potter. However, this is not to be our main focus.

Focus involves zeroing in on something. When we are focused, our attention is pointed to something specific. As Paul tells us in the verses below we are meant to “fix our eyes on Jesus.”

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1 Therefore, since we have so great a cloud of witnesses surrounding us, let us also lay aside every encumbrance and the sin which so easily entangles us, and let us run with endurance the race that is set before us,
2 fixing our eyes on Jesus, the author and perfecter of faith, who for the joy set before Him endured the cross, despising the shame, and has sat down at the right hand of the throne of God.
— Hebrews 12:1-2 (NASB 1995)

To put it plainly, we are not to buy into the things the world wants to sell us. For every person we listen too, and every article we read, and every song we hear we have to take its message back to God’s word. We have to have Holy Spirit clarity on each and every message we hear, because as the verses below states, “We are destroying speculations and every lofty thing raised up against the knowledge of God.”

The world says marriage is optional. The world says same sex love is okay. The world says gender not sex. The world says abortion rights are more important than the children being aborted. The world says Jesus came to preach love. When you take these things to Scripture that is not what we see.

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Now, let me take a moment to say, if I decide to spend more time listening to pod casts about these topics, or I focus on what I don’t agree with in Scripture I will, after a while begin to doubt and question truth. I will begin to ask, “Whose truth is it? Who has a right to dictate truth? Isn’t truth what I make of it? I can’t trust your version of truth because it doesn’t line up with my choices and desires.” These ideas become the speculations and lofty things that are raised up against the knowledge of God. Thus the importance of “…taking every thought captive.” Not just captive, like wild horses in a corral, but captive “…to the obedience of Christ.”

5 We are destroying speculations and every lofty thing raised up against the knowledge of God, and we are taking every thought captive to the obedience of Christ,
— 2 Corinthians 10:5 (NASB 1995)

How does all of this affect our peace? To finish out this post on the mind let’s look at a few verses from the Psalmist.

I will hear what God the Lord will say;
For He will speak peace to His people, to His godly ones;
But let them not turn back to folly.
— Psalm 85:8 (NASB 1995)
165 Those who love Your law have great peace,
And nothing causes them to stumble.
— Psalm 119:165 (NASB 1995)

When we fill our minds with God’s words we have peace. He says it is so, and His word is truth.

Finally, look at this verse.

6 For the mind set on the flesh is death, but the mind set on the Spirit is life and peace,
— Romans 8:6 (NASB 1995)

It cannot be any clearer than that. If we set our mind on the Spirit, and all the knowledge the Spirit gives us through God’s word we will have peace.

Next week we will look at our emotions and how they can keep us from experiencing God’s peace. Have a great week!