Hello 60! The Writer in Me

If this is your first interaction with my blog welcome to my Fashion page. This month I celebrated my 60th birthday. I decided to spend the month celebrating me. Why not? I rarely spend a lot of time talking about how I came to be the person I am, and 60 is a pretty big deal.

Last week I did a post that gave a shout out to the decade I grew up in, the 1970’s. I was born in 1964, but it wasn’t the 60’s that most influenced my fashion or music choices. I can distinctly remember a particular pair of red cuffed, wide leg flares my mother ordered for me out of one of the sale catalogues at the time (JC Penney, and Wards were the two I grew up with). I remember standing on the toilet in the bathroom, so I could see what I looked like in the medicine chest mirror. We never had a full length mirror in our home. I was so excited to wear my mod, red pants to school that day. Do you have any good memories that revolved around clothing when you were young?

I’m gong to throw my pictures in throughout, tell my story, and then give the outfit details.

It was in 8th grade that I became a writer. Our English class was reading The Outsiders by S.E. Hinton. For some reason that story felt so real and personal. As a typical public school student I saw the divisions, the bullying, and the reality of teens being affected by their peers. I was one of them. I didn’t get bullied like some, but I never fit in. My family didn’t have a lot of money, and I often wore second hand clothes I got from my cousin. That’s probably why I remember those red pants so vividly. I had a small circle of friends and most of my social life revolved around the church.

I began to create my own Outsiders stories. After several “books”, which were hand written pieces of about 100 pages, I moved towards stories with mild sci fi slant. Gradually, I turned to trying to write historical fiction, and now my muse is fantasy. I have published a few short articles, and I do a regular monthly article in a local community news magazine, and of course I have this blog. Do I want to be a published author? Yes? Why haven’t I got there yet? I could give you a million excuses such as undisciplined, lazy, tired, busy, etc., but I think the real reason is much simpler: fear.

It takes effort, time, and something I would call heart and soul to pour out your ideas and thoughts into a cohesive work that makes sense and appeals to others. Not only do you have to write, you have to read, voraciously, books in your genre, books in other genres, and books on writing; lots and lots of books. In addition, once you’ve written your piece then comes the ripping, and tearing editing process, followed by the overwhelming questions. Where do I send this? Is it long enough? Is it short enough? Is it good enough? Should I get an agent? How do I look for an agent? The questions are endless. Believe me, to be a writer for a living is a full time job, and not for the weak. However, I am not going to give up.

I am currently working on a fantasy novel with a Christian slant involving a rag tag group of young people who have to learn how to overcome their various problems, find self acceptance and become warriors who can help save the world. In addition to that, I have a few short stories I want to fine tune and try to send either to e-zines, or contests. I would like to get a portfolio of 10 to 12 short stories that I can keep sending as I receive rejections to eventually get something published. Right now I have five short stories that need some work. I am also going to keep looking for some sort of freelance work that I could do part time. If anyone you know is hiring for remote writers, or copy editors let me know.

That’s enough about my writing life. Let’s look at the details of this outfit.

I was inspired by looking through Pinterest at 70’s and 80’s fashion when I found knit sweater outfits, either a skirt and top or a dress. I thought it would be fun to mimic that style and use a few of the 70’s accessory vibes.

My creamy zip up v-neck was a Kohl’s find a year or so ago. It is soft and warm. The skirt I found at a thrift store. I don’t usually wear sweater knit skirts or dresses, due to the hip factor. I do have wider hips and I have never felt comfortable showing off my curves like some women do, but this skirt is big enough that it doesn’t cling. It is also very warm and comfy. The brown belt adds an hour glass vibe, without being extreme.

The Walmart bag is a nod to the patchwork patterns that were popular in the 70’s. Bags were shaped differently than this one, but I thought this worked as a tote bag, and purse.

Once again I added my thrifted slouchy, suede boots.

Apparently, pearls were a thing in the 70’s too. I do remember my mom wearing fake pearls to church early in the 70’s, so I guess that was a thing.

Are you a sweater dress, or sweater skirt fan? What do you think of this look? Would you wear something like this to work? Please leave a thought or two in the comments. I always love to hear from you.

Sharing a few shopping links just in case you are looking for slouchy boots, patchwork bags, or knit pieces of a similar vibe.

I hope you have a great Tuesday!

Outfit Inspiration - Pinterest Summer Look

When looking for outfit inspiration I used to look at catalogues and adds that I would get from various retailers like Christopher and Banks, Kohl’s, JC Penney, and others that would send flyers with outfit possibilities to get you to go purchase various pieces from their stores. It seems these days there are fewer and fewer who do the paper adds, choosing to stick to online marketing with only occasional pushes via snail mail.

I have also used fashion magazines like In Style, Vogue, Elle and others to get inspiration, but lately I can’t even bring myself to look at those magazines due to the political and social agendas so many of them have. I’m all for human rights and treating one another fairly and with kindness, but I get frustrated when various entities try to shove it down my throat, when all I want to do is put an outfit together. The same is true of retail stores, but my purpose in this blog is not to create hate and controversy. My desire is to encourage and inspire.

That being said, I now frequently turn to art, as you saw at the end of June when I styled an outfit around the colors in two paintings. I am also trying to remember to look at my Pinterest Boards, after all, I pin those outfits, recipes, home decor and so on for a purpose. They are suppose to inspire me to try new things and give you styles that are fun and easily duplicated.

Today’s outfit is an easy style that can be replicated with any a-line skirt, tank top or tee, and accessories. You can make it completely your own, by using a different print and color skirt, adding black or other colored accessories instead of brown, and by switching in a graphic tee for the solid colored tank top. This outfit was inspired by this pin.

This thrifted skirt has been in my closet for a number of years and it is starting to show some wear. I don’t wear skirts that often, but this one is a piece I often reach for in the warmer weather. It is a brand called Outback Red. So, I did a little poking around on the internet and discovered that this brand used to be sold by The Limited. Do you remember that store? I do. It was very popular in the 80’s, thus the style of this skirt. Since the 80’s were over forty years ago, can we now say that item made in that decade are vintage? Ha, ha.

My white tank top is also a thrift find, along with the layered bead necklace, and belt. The skirt has no belt loops, but I think the belt adds a touch of polish to the outfit. What do you think?

Style Tip - Adding a belt to skirt or dress can add interest to your outfit and give the appearance of a narrower waistline.

I found two of these tank tops at different times thrifting. This one is a creamy white, while the other has a taupe vibe to it. They both have a banded bottom, which is nice if you wear it out with jeans in that it doesn’t show off the love handles like some ribbed tank tops do. For this outfit I tucked it in. In fact the necklace would go well with either of the tank tops I am talking about.

You have seen my bag on the blog before. This one I got a Walmart a few years ago when patchwork was the rage. I think it is a very classy looking, structured piece, and the low key tans and browns go with many outfits.

Style Tip - While bright colored handbags are fun to use (I have a number), bags in classic colors like neutrals, black or navy add a touch of class to any look.

I wanted a similar look to the pinned outfit, so I knew I wanted to wear sandals. I got these gladiator sandals last year, and when I want something different from my usual sneakers these fit the bill. They are easy to get on and off, with a zipper on the back of the heel. They are airy, comfortable and you don’t have to worry about them falling off. They also cover most of the varicose veins on my feet.

What do you think of this outfit? Do you use Pinterest for outfit inspiration? Where do you get your outfit inspiration from? Let me know your thoughts in the comments below, or you can also leave me a comment on Facebook.

(Pardon my arm flab! Ha, ha.)

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Winter Trends - My Take on Patchwork

Last Thursday, I shared a few of the 2020/2021 Winter Trends. I know many of you don’t really care about being trendy. You are comfortable in your own style. However, I know many of my followers are interested in learning and growing in their fashion sense. Taking a look at what is trending for each season is a good way to explore different fashion ideas and take the plunge to try something new. While there are numerous trends out there for each season, I try to focus on those that best coincide with my fashion philosophy. If you missed my post on My Fashion Philosophy just click on the link to learn more.

I’m starting my Winter Trend series with my take on patchwork. Patchwork isn’t a trend that I would like to have a lot of. While patchwork is a step up from the casual hobo look of distressed jeans, I feel that patchwork is too contrived and thought out. I know that might sound silly, especially coming from a woman whose mother always put patches on our wholly jeans and elbows when I was growing up. I do like patchwork in the form of varied colored patches on jeans or a jean jacket, but it becomes a bit much when it is a whole skirt or top.

How fortunate that I found these fun patchwork jeans when my girls took me on my birthday tour. I found these at Style Encore in Findlay, OH, and they were on clearance at 50% off, so I got them for $9.00. Thrift stores like Plato’s Closet, Clothes Mentor and Style Encore are at the top of my thrifting price point, so when I can find things at half price, I feel like I am paying a price I feel more comfortable paying for a second hand piece. They are definitely higher quality stores with brands that are more top notch, so if you like brand shopping, but want the price points of a second hand shop, these are the stores to look at.

These patchwork jeans are a brand called Est. 1946 Denim, and have a soft, stretchy feel, so are definitely comfortable and made for real life. They have a high waist and while not a super skinny leg, narrow towards the ankle. I like that the patches are a lighter shade of blue. I also really like the cross hatching on the left leg (my left, ha, ha) between the two patches. The patches add texture and interest to an otherwise simple pair of jeans.

I found this long sleeve tee at the same shop as the jeans and it was also on clearance. When I saw the word Shine I knew I had to bring it home with me, even after I tried it on and realized it was a pajama top; Ambrielle brand from JC Penney. Never say never to wearing a pajama top as a regular tee shirt. We wear regular tee shirts for pajama tops, so why not the other way around. Heck, these days women wear their bras and camisoles as attire to be seen by the world! Ha, ha.

Let me tell you more about why the word Shine has special meaning for me. A fellow blogger Debbie Stinedurf of Fashion Fairy Dust, last year decided instead of having a list of New Year’s resolutions to choose a word for the year. I thought about doing that last year, but I never did. This year, when she mentioned it on Instagram, I was immediately struck by the word “light”, so that is the word I chose for myself for this year. I want to incorporate light into my life in the form of truth, and revelation, especially through God’s word and works written by fellow Christ followers. I also want to be a light of hope and encouragement to my family and to you all who follow my blog. Lastly, I want to incorporate light into my writing. I have always had the thought to have light, somehow be a part of my stories, in a similar way to Thomas Kinkade incorporating light into his paintings. When I saw the word Shine on that tee, it just seemed that it was a confirmation that I had chosen the right word to focus on.

To make the look more monochrome with an emphasis on winter textures, I added my light blue chenille cardigan. I love this soft, cozy piece and it gets plenty of wear time in the cold months.

I though earth tones would be a good compliment to this mix of gray and blue. My George satchel from Walmart a few years ago, was the perfect accompaniment as it has the patchwork vibe going on as well. From there I chose my Nine West ankle boots from Kohl’s go go with the dark brown on the bag.

Do you like patchwork? Do you have anything patchwork in your closet? What do you think of this outfit? What sort of patchwork piece might you add to your wardrobe in the coming months? Do you have New Year’s resolutions? If you picked a word for the year 2021 what would it be? I’d love to hear your thoughts.

I’m including a few shopping links for things with a patchwork look. These are affiliate links. All opinions are my own. Thanks for following along. Have a great day.