Fashion Topic: Loving Ourselves and Our Planet

If you are at all observant about the fashion industry you know our world is glutted with retail stores, boutiques, shops, and second hand stores all full to bursting with clothing pieces to tantalize and tempt our fashion palettes. There are many people who are not at all influenced by the industry. They could care less about what is currently trending, or who is wearing what at the Oscars.

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Young people, especially women, love the change of the seasons if just for the excuse to go buy a new outfit. The fast fashion movement is not slowing down and continues to provide new pieces to credit card clutching fashionistas in as little as two weeks from design idea to hanging in the store. See this article from earth.org. (I do not necessarily agree with all the philosophies and ideas put forth by this organization, but thought this was a good article on the impact of fast fashion on the environment.)

While I agree that slow fashion is a better way to go, many slow fashion retailers have price points that are more than many can afford. Granted they are better quality pieces and because of that will most likely be a long term wardrobe staple, meaning you don’t have to buy as much or as often.

I personally have found second hand to be the best way to buy new clothes and still help the environment by repurposing clothing and other goods that would have wound up in the land fill. Unfortunately, even second hand stores are feeling the affects of over production and over consumption. They are now fighting the “throw away” mentality. Young people especially are still buying with unfettered freedom, but now with the mentality that if they don’t like it, or it looks bad after a few washings, or it no longer fits they can just drop it off at the thrift store. I have seen more than one thrift store in our area close their doors to donations for periods of time to try to manage the bulging overstock they have and sell through some of what is on the sales floor.

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How do we deal with this problem in a way that will, not only help ourselves, but will also help our world? I think it all starts with us, the individual, and we have to start with one small change, or one small choice at a time. With all my health issues over the last three years, I have sought out therapy to help manage my new normal. I frequently get overwhelmed by the symptoms, the drugs, the appointments and the tests, but my therapist keeps reminding me change that is permanent comes about by starting small. I think this can apply to our overburdened clothing economy.

Here are a few ways to start small in your effort to become a more responsible and sustainable consumer:

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1 - Start at home. Obviously home is where we live, and if our homes are cluttered and too full our mental health will suffer. When our mental health suffers we tend to fall into those habits of shopping too much, overbuying, and feeling overwhelmed. It truly becomes a vicious cycle. Here are a few small ideas for dealing with the clutter at home.

a - Go through one part of your closet at a time. Perhaps start with your scarves. Go through and pull aside the ones you rarely wear, or those pieces that are scratchy and uncomfortable. Do the same over time with your tops, your bottoms, your sweaters, etc.

b - Decide how you want to get rid of things. There are lots of options, but remember the market is glutted, so selling may not always be the easiest way to off load things. Look for entities that service the underpriviledged. There are places that will take gently use work clothing to give to people who are trying to get back on their feet after being homeless, struggling with addiction and so on. These clothes can help them at job interviews, court dates and when looking for a place to live. There are also online groups that will sell you a bag that you can fill and send back to them. They will recycle the clothing, keeping it out of the landfills. Try Trashie, or PopLinen. Of course selling is still and option. Try Poshmark, ThreadUp or even setting up a shop on Etsy. Just remember many of these places take fees out of your sales, but my thought is if they do part of the work of selling, they can have it.

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2. Change your thinking about shopping. Shopping has a strange pull on many of us, and it has been scientifically proven to raise our dopamine levels giving us a high quite similar to taking drugs. If you have a more addictive personality this needs to be taken into account. I often get in the “mood” to go shopping, but I am finding more and more it takes over. I’ll have a run of several weeks where I keep wanting to go, go, go. Albeit I mostly thrift, but the truth is I don’t need anything. I do it for the feel good aspect of it. Recognizing our personality quirks gives us a better chance to not over shop or buy unnecessary items.

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3. If you are going to shop, do it wisely. Do your research. Know what stores cater to fast fashion manufacturers and give them a wide berth. Stores like those listed in the earth.org article mentioned earlier in this article are not helping our environmental clothing problem. Shop retailers with a good reputation who are actually trying to make changes in their manufacturing and planning to create less waste, and less pollution. Shop thrift stores, especially the local, smaller retailers. Local businesses need or dollars. Two of my favorite stores are the American Cancer Society Discovery shop right around the corner from me, and the Toledo Humane Society Thrift Store. They employ mostly volunteers, and most of their proceeds go to the non-profit itself, giving me an additional reason to feel good after I shop there.

In addition to doing your research on where you shop make a list of what you are shopping for. It is easy to pick up many things at a thrift store that you don’t really need just because they are cute or cheap, but we need to ask ourselves, do I really need this? Making a running list will give you the ability to better stick to your goals of only buying what you need and not continuing to be an over consumer.

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4. Wear things more than once before washing. This is an amazingly easy way to use less water and create less clothing fibers from going into our sewers and even into our ground water. Instead of automatically throwing your clothes into the laundry basket, hang them up or drape them over a chair to air out. Obviously if you get sweaty or have issues with strong body oder this is not as applicable. I typically throw tops that touch my body into the wash after one wear, but an outer layer, my jeans and even my compression socks I wear multiple times. Letting them air out seems to work great, but I also don’t struggle with heavy body oder, pet hair, drool or baby liquids. If I do get cat hair on something I just use a lint roller to get it off.

I know for me this love/hate relationship with clothing has been and will continue to be a journey, but just like with my physical health I want to keep trying to be a better, more informed consumer who not only cares for myself, but also for this amazing planet God gave us as our home.

I hope you enjoyed this Fashion Topic article. If there are other fashion related ideas you would like me to explore leave me a comment.

Have a great week.

Hello "60"! Growing up in the 70's.

To spend time celebrating me is outside of my comfort zone, but one thing I am learning from the Lord, and from really listening to other people is that I am valuable and I have something to give back to the world. Many of you have reached out to me over the years and some of you are regular supporters of this blog and I appreciate all of you. When you have felt invisible most of your life it is hard to get outside of that box and start thinking differently, but I want to think in a way that is accurate to who I am in God’s eyes, and He has called me, Beloved, so it’s time I start acting like it.

My birthday is January 7th, and this year I turned 60. Wow! For six decades God has given me the grace and strength to walk this planet and He has also drawn me closer and closer to Him, showing me more than ever how important it is to be in His word and in fellowship with others who walk in His ways.

My faith is the spring board to everything I do, but the last few years as I have been dealing with illness and the stress and fatigue that comes with it, I have really not been walking and doing with excellence, and I truly believe that is what God wants from us. That doesn’t mean we don’t screw up, get tired or fall of the wagon once in a while, but when we start to use difficulty as a crutch to not show up or to let things slide, then we need to do some self examination.

Once again, I am evaluating where I want this little blog to go and you know what? I am happy to let it keep going the direction its going, but with just a little more effort and planning. This month I just want to celebrate me and the person God has formed me into, so my outfits are going to revolve around that theme.

Today’s look is celebratory. My spouse got us tickets to go to an Abba cover band on Sunday evening. This is not the outfit I wore, but since Abba was big in the 70’s, I thought it would be fun to build an outfit from my memories of that decade. While I was born in the 60’s, it is the 70’s that had the most influence on my clothing, my music and my memories.

The decade of the 70’s saw great changes in the world of music, fashion, and government. With the death of Elvis Presley in 1977, and the official split up of the Beatles in 1974, the music industry continued to look for bands and beats that appealed to people buying albums and listening to the radio. Along with hard rockers like Aerosmith, Alice Cooper, Led Zeppelin and Black Sabbath, the Rolling Stones carried over from the 60’s and soft rock like the Eagles and Fleetwood Mac appealed to a maturing generation. In addition, disco splashed onto the scene in the form of Abba, the Bee Gees, KC and the Sunshine Band, and others. Rock also took an angry turn in the form of punk with names like the Sex Pistols, the Ramones and the Runaways.

While the United States, much to its’ citizen’s dismay, had troupes fighting in Vietnam, our country pulled out in 1973, leaving South Vietnam to be assimilated into the Communist control of North Vietnam. War found a new front in the form of nuclear threats and posturing between capitalist West and communist East. Did you have to do “bomb” drills in school? I remember doing them when I was in early elementary school, where the alarm would go off and we would have to get under our desks. Things have changed. Now our kids and grandkids just have to worry about school shooters! Ugh!

Fashion continued to influence the world and everyone was looking to music and Hollywood to determine what we would be wearing. Pant legs got wide with wide leg flares and bell bottoms. Clothes were bright, colorful and printed with flowers, animals and our favorite brands and bands. Clothes were made to show movement, and sass. Vests and jackets were often trimed with fringe, and dresses and tops donned crocheted embellishments. Turtleneck sweaters replaced button down shirts under sports jackets, and monochrome sweater outfits with slouchy boots were seen regularly in the work place. Jewelry was bold, and layered.

It has been fun to look back at this decade I grew up in. Of course my outfit might not be exact to some of the trends and styles of the time but I thought each piece gave a shout out to some of the fashion vibes of those years. My kimono was a gift from my younger daughter for my birthday a couple of years ago when she and her sister did a spa day for me at her apartment. That was fun. I think the kimono has that 70’s feel with its bright colors and the peacocks going up the one side in the back.

My wide leg flares, the turtleneck, and the boots were all similar to things I remember people wearing. The pants would have been more likely worn with platform shoes, but I don’t have any of those anymore.

What do you think of this outfit? Does it remind you of the 70’s? What fashion trends do you remember from the 70’s? I’d love to hear your thoughts.

I hope you enjoyed this post.

A New Year, A New Plan

Hi everyone. A month and a half has trudged by since I last posted anything on the blog. I say trudged because, as quickly as it has flown by, it has been difficult. The end of November I got a nasty sinus infection and did a round of antibiotics. It was actually a blessing, because by the time I took my last antibiotic I was able to taste and smell again, so I enjoyed all the delicious treats the Christmas holidays provided. I enjoyed Christmas with our kids and grandkids even though over the course of the month our one grandson got Covid again, and our son-in-law ended up with the flu. There were a few days where we were not even sure we were going to be able to celebrate Christmas on the day, but it all worked out.

During this time, my husband and I were also intending to go see his parents. First we were going to go the week before Christmas, and take our younger daughter and grandson, but with him having Covid we were not able to do that. We then decided we would go the day after Christmas, during the week, but with my son-in-law having the flu we did not want to expose my in-laws to any germs. We waited. Finally, just my spouse and I left on the 30th, to visit for a quick weekend, before he had to start getting ready for the semester. We arrived late afternoon on Friday along with a large Chicago style pizza that we had picked up along the way.

That evening we enjoyed a talkative dinner with my husband’s mom, dad and sister, and were so pleased that dad, who has struggled with Parkinson’s for years, enjoyed two pieces of the thick cheesy pizza and was animated and talkative. Saturday morning, with family by his side, my father-in-law walked into eternity with Jesus. Obviously, my husband and I made the decision to stay the whole week following and help his mom with the planning and implementation of the burial and Celebration of Life service.

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I cannot emphasize enough the sovereignty and mercy of our mighty Lord. That we should be there at exactly the right time to be with our family, not only as dad passed, but during the long week of adjustment and planning after the fact is simply amazing. I saw on a daily basis how God gave strength and courage, as well as peace and calm. He used me as servant as the rest of the family dealt with all the details in the planning process. It is hard to say when facing all the loss experienced in this life, but the truth stands, God is good; His mercies are new every morning, and He loves us with a lavish love.

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With the coming of a New Year I want to make an effort to get back to consistent posting on this little blog of mine. I came very close to completely giving it up when I got sick, but I believe this tiny piece of the internet has a place and purpose put into play by God. To the rest of the world this might seem like a waste of time. Why do I want to put effort into something that I am not even getting paid for? The answer is YOU. Every once in a while, one of you will make a comment or send me a short email saying, “I love what you are doing.” “You inspire me to look at my wardrobe differently.” “You have a gift from God.” Wow! And you know what? Those comments always come, just when I begin to think I need to stop doing this.

What I am learning is that we need each other. We need a little place we can go to, like a favorite coffee shop or bookstore, where we can spend a little time hanging out, laughing, telling stories and being encouraged. Encouragement is so important. Encouragement and inspiration can be a bright flame in a world that is filled with clouds and dreariness.

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I have a few ideas that I would like to share with you about the organization and content of the blog. I still plan to post twice a week. One day will feature fashion and one day will feature faith. There might be occasions where I have more than two posts for a week, but that is my desired minimum. I want to work towards a more structured approach for the fashion page rather than flying by the seat of my pants, so that I can have an organized plan for upcoming content.

I want to go back to more of a weekly column of sorts, so this is my tentative plan.

1st. Tuesday - Outfit Inspiration - a look at sources for outfit inspiration including outside entities like Instagram and Pinterest, and inspiration hiding in our own drawers and closets.

2nd. Tuesday - Shopping Our Closets - on this day we will look to our own closets where we will start with basics that most women own, and build whole outfits around them.

3rd. Tuesday - My Style - here we will begin to explore what style is and how we can begin to find our own style. I will also talk about my own style and share some of my every day looks.

4th. Tuesday - Color Play - one of my favorite things to do is talk about color - think Pantone series - and try new combinations. This will also include patterns, textures, print mixing and sources for color inspiration.

5th. Tuesday (once every few months) - Topics - this will be a time when I discuss topics that are relevant to aging and fashion including: ageism in fashion, sustainability, modesty, being a Christian in the fashion arena, and others.

I am also looking at a few ways to bring in a little income without cluttering up my posts with advertising or pushing products. I do not feel that either of those things is part of who I am or what I want this blog to be. I am hoping to start a little resale shop, possibly through Facebook Marketplace or for those of you who are not on Facebook through Poshmark. I am also toying with the idea of adding a tip jar button to my blog, so if the Spirit moves you, you can buy me a cup of coffee or send a small thank you gift if a post was particularly helpful for you. I am not pushing for money, I just thought it would be a way for you to support something you enjoy and believe in without having to buy new products or wade through ads. I will still try to include shopping links so you can peruse at your leisure. As always, your comments and input mean more to me than anything monetary.

There is a lot to think about, research and figure out, so I covet your support and prayers as I try to make this blog a better place through consistent, quality content. If you have any ideas, thoughts or feedback, please shoot me an email or leave a comment below. Your input is what helps this be a better blog.

If you have made it this far thank you so much for reading. I appreciate all of you. On Thursday I will be sharing my plans for the Faith page, so if you enjoy reading those posts as well please come back then. Next week look for my first outfit post for the new year. Until then, love and hugs!